CHRISTIAN AFFECTION
2 Corinthians 7:12-16 "So even though I wrote to you, it was not on
account of the one who did the wrong or of the injured party, but rather
that before God you could see for yourselves how devoted to us you are. By
all this we are encouraged. In addition to our own encouragement, we were
especially delighted to see how happy Titus was, because his spirit has
been refreshed by all of you. I had boasted to him about you, and you had
not embarrassed me. But just as everything we said to you was true, so our
boasting about you to Titus has proved to be true as well. And his
affection for you is all the greater when he remembers that you were all
obedient, receiving him with fear and trembling. I am glad I can have
complete confidence in you."
The Prime Minister was speaking in New York on Thursday at the Memorial
Service for the hundreds of people from Great Britain who died in the
terrorist destruction of the World Trade Center. He ended his speech with a
quotation from the novelist, Thornton Wilder, in the final words of his
book, "The Bridge of San Luis Rey" which deals with the aftermath of the
death of five people when a bridge collapses where Wilder writes that "love
will have been enough". The Prime Minister was commenting on the centrality
of love in human experience, though the actual ideas of Wilder seem to be
inspired more by Buddhism than Christianity.
To speak helpfully about love is as challenging as speaking about
repentance. Everyone in the world praises love, and sings about love, and
acknowledges that love is the most important grace of all, and we are never
going to deny that. To say all that freshly, and from the teaching of Jesus
Christ, is the challenge of this moment so that these cold hearts of ours
are quickened in love. What a need for our own congregation. Too much
selfishness exists in all our lives, and love is the greatest of all.
I am not saying that it's love rather than the truth that we need. The
alternative to orthodoxy is error, and that will do no one any good. God
has given to us a revelation of himself in his Son Jesus Christ who has
told us everything that his Father has given him to say to the world. Let
me hear that! You shall know that truth from this pulpit, and embracing
that truth can make you free. If I didn't believe that I would cease
preaching this moment. But more than truth is needed. The devil himself
believes many great truths about God, but there is no love at all within
Satan.
The Lord Jesus, on the night he was betrayed, said to his disciples, "A new
commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must
love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if
you love one another" (Jn. 13:34&35). Not the fish sign you may stick on
your car, nor the cross you wear around your neck, nor the T-shirt with a
text on the back, nor the clerical collar, nor the brown habit, nor the
long hair, nor the length of our beards nor our ringlets can be the marks
showing that we are religious folks. But in all times and in all places the
mark of a disciple of the Lord Jesus is his love.
We love our neighbours as ourselves, and in these days if our neighbours
are Muslim we should be particularly concerned to show our love for them.
Love is largely service and not sentiment. Love is longing for our
neighbour's welfare. Joe Bayly wrote about an elderly woman and her son
living in downtown Philadelphia. "The mother was paralysed; the son had
given up his struggle to live and just stayed at home and ate. As a result,
he weighed so very much that he couldn't stoop down to care for his feet.
Two elderly Christian ladies, sisters, lived next door. They cared for the
mother, bathing her and nursing her. But they could do nothing for the son.
Hearing about the situation, a young assistant pastor began to stop at the
home. He washed the son's feet and cut his toenails, and all the time he
was doing it the man cursed the young pastor, used obscene language and
heaped all sorts of abuse on him. But this didn't stop him" (Joseph T.
Bayly, "Out of My Mind," Zondervan, 1993, p.89). Love endures all things.
Love for all kinds of men endures all kinds of things.
A friend of mine named Caffy Whitney, author Don Whitney's wife, has been
spending some time recently doing some renovation work at the home of an
unconverted couple who are loved greatly by Don and Caffy. He says, "She's
doing it because she wants to love them towards Christ, that is, to show a
sweaty love that might gain a hearing for the gospel. She has more than
enough of her own work to do, but she is, to use Puritan Ralph Venning's
term, "un-selfing" at this time because of her love for God, and the
gospel, and her growing love for these people who, at present, are not
interested in our message.
Every individual Christian has this grace, but imagine the resources of
love that a fellowship of believers in a church can tap. Everyone is joined
to Christ and of his fulness they receive. Everyone is indwelt by the
Spirit of love. Such a church has to be a community of the love of God. So
the New Testament exhorts us many times about the crucial place of love:
"May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other" (I
Thess. 3:12). "This is the message you heard from the beginning: We should
love one another" (I Jn. 3:11). "We ought to lay down our lives for our
brothers" (I Jn. 3:16). Can we have any assurance that we are Christians if
we don't love one another? "Dear friends, let us love one another, for love
comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God" (I
Jn. 4:7). This is not touchy-feely love This is a congregation where
everyone is patient, and kind. They don't envy. They are not proud, nor
rude, nor self-seeking. No one is easily angered, nor does anyone keep a
record of wrongs. They don't delight in evil but they rejoice in the truth.
This is a congregation where everyone protects, and always trusts, and
always hopes, and always perseveres. They don't know the meaning of failure
where love is concerned. The motivation for this love is their awareness
that God the Son took frail flesh, lived on this earth and laid down his
life for them to save them from condemnation. He loved them and gave
himself for them. That is what constrains them to love in a costly way:
Jesus' love "so amazing, so divine, demands my soul my life, my all."
The impact of such corporate love on the watching world is to cause it to
know that we are Christ's disciples. There was an evangelical conference of
students, and they were all staying with Christian families in the town.
One of the students had been converted only two years earlier and she had
never been into a Christian home before. In a sharing session at the end of
the conference she said, "I've sometimes wondered if there were such a
thing as a Christian home, and what it would be like. My own mother and
father weren't Christians, or even religious. Well, now I know - and I
could just rave about the home where I've been staying here at the
conference. It's going to make a difference to my entire outlook on
marriage and having children. This family where I've been staying has eight
children. They live in a big old house. Their furniture is old and sort of
put together - but lovingly put together. There are separate boys' and
girls bathrooms like at school. There's a big dining table - the father's
at one end, the mother's at the other. The mother's so peaceful, you'd
never know she had eight children" (Joe Bayly, op cit, p.44). That was the
biggest discovery that girl made that week, not the good teaching, nor the
missionary talks, nor the times of praise and prayer, but a Christian home
where ten people loved one another.
A breakdown in love in a Christian community is a tragedy. It is a denial
of all we say about the love of God in giving his own Son for us. If you
are guilty of failing to love, of being selective in whom you love and whom
you will not love, then that is a tremendously serious matter. Have you
truly known the love of God for your own worthless self? Then how is it
that you are not dealing with those gripes and hurts that prevent you
loving as one for whom the Lord Christ died should love?
So, as we have seen, there was a breakdown in love between the Corinthian
church and the apostle Paul. They have believed the innuendo of his enemies
and their criticisms. Then Paul wrote to them a letter, and when they got
the letter and realised how badly they had been acting, they were so sorry,
and they came to realise how devoted to Paul they were. That is the precise
phrase Paul uses here, 'devoted to us' (v.12). It is the language of
marriage where a husband and wife are utterly committed to one another.
What can we learn from this experience? We are not loving one another as we
should. How can we find the flame of sacred love rekindled in our hearts?
What does this passage teach us about this crucial theme?
1. LOVE FOR FELLOW CHRISTIANS SHOWS ITSELF IN A DELIGHT IN THEIR CHARACTER
AND GRACES.
Paul had a deep love for the Corinthian congregation. He had spent 18
months there evangelising, teaching and praying for them. He never stopped
loving them and regaled Titus with stories of the conversions,
self-sacrifice, the change in slaves and in masters too, the Christian
homes that had been established and the daily living of that new church. He
constantly boasted about all this to Titus (v.14), not exaggerating in
order to tell a good yarn, but having observed the extraordinary changes
that grace had wrought in the lives of temple prostitutes, male and female,
slaves, idol worshippers, thieves and many ordinary people Paul couldn't
help bragging to Titus about what God had done.
It is one of the rules of Christian pedagogy that we give praise to those
over whom we may have any kind of authority. We praise our wives'
intelligence, and home management, and beauty, and dress sense, and
godliness, and skill in raising the children. We might say after a
delicious meal, in today's parlance, and a little tongue in cheek, "There
are many who claim to be domestic goddesses, but you excel them all." We
praise our children. When we give our daughters away in marriage we say in
our speech at the wedding breakfast that she has been a far better daughter
than we have ever been a father to her. If we are teachers or tutors we
encourage our pupils or students by legitimate appreciation. When ministers
are at their conferences they use the opportunity to tell fellow ministers
what fine elders and deacons and congregations they have, how earnest are
the Sunday School teachers and the youth leaders. We can brag about them on
such occasions, and I must also do so from the pulpit at every conceivable
moment. Ministry that is all exhortation and directive is unbiblical. Any
progress made in the congregation in being filled with all the fulness of
God is fair game for commendation.
Paul had written a letter about the Corinthians' need for profound
repentance, and in response they had manifested deep godly sorrow. Now it
was the place in this letter to lighten up and to balance those sentiments
with many good words of praise: "Do you know I boast about you to my
friends?" he says to them, "and all I say about you is true. How Titus
loves you, and all the more after his recent time with you." Think of a
Victorian father like Elizabeth Barret Browning's, who was exacting,
demanding, critical, never effusive and affectionate - utterly unlike a far
more typical Victorian father, the happy and holy Charles Haddon Spurgeon.
Imagine how it would cripple a child to have such an austere figure in the
home all the years he was growing up never tossing him a scrap of praise.
Consider the Lord Jesus Christ, how he encouraged his disciples: "Don't be
afraid Peter, from now on you will catch men;" "Great is your reward in
heaven;" "Your sins are forgiven. Your faith has saved you." "Rejoice that
your names are written in heaven;" "Blessed are the eyes who see what you
see;" "Whoever acknowledges me before men, the Son of Man will acknowledge
before the angels of heaven." "I am going to prepare a place for you, and
take you to myself that where I am there you will be also." What wonderful
truths, spoken every day, cheering them, keeping up their morale,
motivating them to spend their lives serving him, inspiring them to keep
going, taking up their cross and following him, that being so much away
from their wives and homes was all worthwhile, that it would produce a
priceless harvest. Remember after Peter had fallen into sin so publicly
very soon our risen Lord meets with him and recommissions him, "Feed my
sheep. Feed my lambs. Keep going Peter, keep going."
These disciples were all such young men, some in their early twenties. They
had no qualifications; they were not proved and tested, in fact deeply
flawed human beings, yet the Lord goes out of his way to encourage them.
And I wonder in how many congregations are members wilting, and in how many
marriages is the morale of the wife and the children, or even the husband,
low because they feel that their best efforts are not at all appreciated,
and simply not good enough. They sigh, "I don't seem to be able to do
anything right." People are becoming passengers, and refusing to try in
case they don't measure up. So there is talent unutilized, and unapplied
because of a prevalence of discouragement. People are afraid that they will
be put down.
But the apostle Paul began virtually all his letters with words of
encouragement, with one solitary exception. He gives churches and people
great words of praise and thanks to God as he thinks about them, and he
tells them what he says when on his knees he praises God for them. He tells
them what graces he remembers in their lives - for which he thanks God -
their work of faith and labour of love and patience of hope in our Lord
Jesus Christ. He is at pains to express his awareness of the qualities they
possess, and his own personal debt to them, and how encouraged he is by
them. "I thank God for you," he is saying. We need to follow him, because
praise shows itself in evident delight in the graces of others. Think of
the Song of Songs, and how each of those lovers, so deeply in love with the
other, speaks of all the beauty of the other, how fragrant and handsome and
delightful they are, how they can't stop loving them as their minds dwell
on them. Paul here is writing to this church of converted sinners, which
has had so many weaknesses, and yet he says to them "I am glad I can have
complete confidence in you" (v.16), and that minister is a blessed man who
can say the same about his own congregation. So, love shows itself in
delighting in graces seen in others.
2. LOVE FOR FELLOW CHRISTIANS CAN GROW COLD.
As the old proverb says, 'Love's fire, if it once goes out, is hard to
kindle.' That's true. Easier to fall in love with someone else than to love
again the person you have fallen out of love with. There had been a time
when the Corinthian congregation had been in danger of idolising Paul. A
group had emerged in the church that said, "We follow Paul" and Paul was
horrified: "Was Paul crucified for you?" he cried. But as the years went by
a murmuring spirit grew up in the congregation and a party emerged who
first subtly and then blatantly opposed him and undermined the place he had
occupied in the hearts of the people. We know this from this very letter,
how he feels he must plead with them to show their affection to him,
opening wide his heart to them and saying, "We are not withholding our
affection from you, but you are withholding yours from us. As a fair
exchange - I speak as to my children - open wide your hearts also" (2 Cors.
6:13).
Paul has written this earlier letter which dealt with a serious sin that
was being tolerated in the congregation, counselling them how it must be
dealt with, but here he tells us that it was not principally because of the
injured party - the old man whose wife had been taken by his own son - nor
even because of the ones who did wrong - the son and the wife - that he had
written (v.12), but, Paul says, "rather that before God you could see for
yourselves how devoted to us you are" (v.12). Do you understand the point
the apostle is making? He wanted the church to go on a voyage of
self-discovery, to turn around and realise, "We do love Paul, don't we? Of
course we do. We are devoted to him. What fools we have been to ignore him
the way we have."
Of course, love for the apostles is not an option, like your love for
certain music or foods or colours. Every one of us must love the apostle
Paul. It is a terrible sin not to love an apostle of Christ. Only that can
make a congregation a God-blessed congregation. If there is coldness to the
apostles and their ministry today there is no way that such a church is
going to know the work of the Holy Spirit in salvation and growth. It has
been the great mark of religious liberalism in the church in the past 200
years that it has felt bold enough to criticise the apostles, or seek to
drive a wedge between them and Jesus Christ their Lord.
Through the activities of these false men there developed in Wales (just as
there once was in Corinth) a coldness towards this representative of Christ
- for that is what an apostle is. I had an uncle who was a minister, and
yet for years he did not preach on the writings of the apostle Paul because
he had been taught by Welsh Congregationalist lecturers that Paul had
ruined the simple Galilean gospel of Jesus. That heresy is as old as the
New Testament itself. What does it do? It kills any love for Paul. It must
do so. If he destroyed the gospel of Jesus he is a rogue, isn't he?
They were saying something like that in Corinth, disdaining Paul. However,
many of that congregation were genuinely saved people. That is, they had
the inner witness of the Holy Spirit, and that Spirit was constantly saying
to them, "The words of the apostle are true words. Obey what Paul says
because they are God-breathed words. Heed them and do them." Every time
they heeded one of his critics they were kicking against the goads. So it
has been with all the multitude of academics who have dominated seminaries
and university departments of religion in the last century, and spoken of
the alleged "assured results of modern criticism" have not prevented God
raising up in every generation students who love and obey all the Word of
God. Always, in the heart of every true believer, there will exist a
devotion to the apostle Paul as the greatest Christian, and preacher, and
man of prayer that the world has ever seen. God himself has put that
witness in every single Christian heart and it will remain there until we
meet him in glory, even though at times on our pilgrimage we get
temporarily led astray by modernist Religious Instruction teachers or
lecturers.
So in Corinth the enemies of the gospel had managed for a while to turn the
hearts of many in this fledgling congregation against the apostle. This was
also the devil's strategy in Galatia. You remember those moving words as
Paul reminds them of his first visit there: "you welcomed me as if I were
an angel of God, as if I were Christ Jesus himself. What has happened to
all your joy? I can testify that, if you could have done so, you would have
torn out your eyes and given them to me. Have I now become your enemy by
telling you the truth?" (Gals. 4:14-16). False teachers had effectively
undermined Paul.
It also happened in Asia. In one of his last letters, maybe his final
letter, Paul told Timothy, "You know that everyone in the province of Asia
has deserted me, including Phygelus and Hermogenes" (2 Tim. 1:15). What had
caused this? Had it been Paul's arrest? Did they think that the cause of
Christianity was lost? It was a personal desertion, but it was also a
disavowal of his apostolic authority. He had been there in Ephesus for two
and a half years and many had believed in Christ through him, and now these
very people had turned away from him. How fickle is the human heart! What
seeds of criticism and prejudice are in the hearts of every single
believer. The great awakening in Asia had been followed by the great
defection. To every eye but the eye of faith it must have appeared that
that was the end of Christianity in the area.
Imagine it! Paul had been the instrument in bringing the light and truth of
Jesus Christ to them. He had loved them like a nursing mother. He preached
the gospel to them with the Holy Spirit sent down from heaven. This man had
met the risen Christ. He had been caught up to the third heaven. This was
the man they ceased loving. Our point is this, that if in a number of
places men's affection for the holy apostle turned cold this experience is
certainly going to be true for you and me at some places on our earthly
journey. If the men who shouted, "Hosanna! Blessed is that cometh in the
name of the Lord!" could shout in less than a week, "Away with him! Crucify
him! Release unto us Barabbas!" then those who once blew hot for us pygmies
may come to blow cold for us in a short time. If the Lord Jesus himself
could say of the mighty, well-instructed congregation in Ephesus, "You have
forsaken your first love" (Rev.2:4) then our little congregation can
certainly leave its first love. I would think that the Lord is saying to us
at this moment, "Reckon on it," and not in some distant future period when
through distractions and wealth and brilliant new responsibilities I start
to love the world, but I am to reckon on it this week, that I can tolerate
coldness of heart for the New Testament writings themselves, and stop
reading the Bible and be switched off enjoying biblical preaching, and lose
my love for preacher and church leader and for fellow Christians.
Yet in every true Christian heart there must a sense of oneness with his
brother and sister in Christ even though it has been disappointed by them,
and is ill-educated, or covered with a pitying and sick
pseudo-sophistication. It will re-emerge again as the wind of the Spirit
gently breathes on those smouldering ashes and makes them burn again. They
will again confess their love for their brother or sister with whom they
are going to spend eternity. There has to be a devotion for every child of
God in the Christian heart, even the one we feel most estranged from, and
embarrassed by. You think of Dr. J. Gresham Machen's admiration for the
message Billy Sunday preached in a huge auditorium in Philadelphia during
on long crusade. Billy was his brother.
I remember coming home from the cinema in the Rhymney Valley, 45 years ago,
one wet winter Saturday night about 8.30 and at the bus stop in Tiryberth
(which was then, I guess, a community of poorer people) three black suited
men got on the bus. They had made waistcoats for themselves on which they
had crudely painted Bible verses in white lettering. That Saturday night
they had been out in the streets preaching and knocking on the doors of the
council houses. They were very wet, and they were returning to Newport. One
sat on the seat next to me. I remember thinking how young and intelligent
he was compared to his two companions who looked older and wilder.
Immediately he got into conversation with me about the gospel, and I told
him sheepishly that I too was a Christian. I had been converted six months,
and I knew nothing more than that I was a believer, and I admired what
these men were doing, and I couldn't mock them (there was a smirking
eyebrow-raising fellow-pupil from our school two seats ahead looking at me
being spoken to by the waistcoated brother). I could not mock them. My
mother's salvation came through an uncle converted in the 1904 revival who
preached on Saturday nights in the streets of Merthyr Tydfil to the men
tumbling out of the pubs, but I thought that I would never do that sort of
thing myself. I knew, yet, that this man on the bus with me was my brother.
There was a primitive devotion in my teenage Christian heart to him and his
work. So it has been ever since, wherever I have seen faith expressed at
some cost to the person himself though he is engaged in activities that I
would not do myself I've felt a devotion to that man. I have taken comfort
in that fact believing that I have the inner witness of the Holy Spirit.
Paul hoped that by writing a letter to them, and their heeding it their
love for him would be reawakened and they would rediscover just how much
they loved him.
3. LOVE CANNOT BE REVIVED WITHOUT THE SUMMONS TO REPENTANCE.
Paul reminds them of this fact: "everything we said to you was true"
(v.14). When he had first come to them and preached to them, everything he
said to them was true. Then what he wrote in all his letters to them was
also true. The only reason we spend a year or two on Sunday nights studying
this letter is that everything that Paul says is true. Now that is not a
unique feature of the New Testament. It is not its truthfulness that makes
it the Word of God. Everything written in the manuals accompanying your
personal computer may be true. If error is discovered the manual is
rewritten and a new edition is produced. Because those manuals are true
they are not thereby the Word of God. This letter is the Word of God
because the Spirit of truth help
ed Paul to write it, and one of the consequences of that inspiration is its
abiding truthfulness. "Thy word is truth" (Jn. 17:17).
So when they read Paul's letter and broke their hearts it was the truth of
what Paul wrote that did it, and so Paul was not praising himself when he
write, "even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it"
(v.8). The truth was that there could be no rediscovery of their first love
for Paul, and no establishing of a right relationship between the apostle
and the church without them repenting of their sin. It had believed error.
It had become suspicious and critical of the servant of Christ. It was
judging him as a phoney. For that it needed to repent. The path to renewed
relationships and warm affection is repentance. If the church is going to
be a fellowship of holy love there is no way that that can be achieved
without constant repentance.
Let me use this illustration. About a year before President Richard Nixon
resigned as the US President he asked a number of American leaders to come
together in the White House and one by one he asked them what they thought
he should do about Watergate. This one man, who is a Christian, told the
President that the American people are very forgiving. "Even at this late
date, if you went to them and said, 'I did wrong; I'm sorry. Please forgive
me,' they would." The president listened and then he brought in the next
person for his suggestion, but he never took the advice of the Christian to
apologise for authorising the break-in of the Democratic Party's offices in
the Watergate building, and within a year he was forced to resign from
office.
Just an admission of culpability and a plea for forgiveness and President
Nixon would have served out his term of office. But repentance is a lost
grace, for individuals, and in churches, and in the world. If Christians
resist the call to repent should we expect unbelievers to confess their
sins to God? There is plenty of temporary repentance about. Someone has
compared that to sailors who throw their goods overboard in a storm to help
keep the boat from sinking, but when the sun shines the following day they
regret what they did and wish they still had their chattels.
The Corinthian church was getting aloof and distant to the apostle of
Christ and they needed to repent of this sin. They needed honest prayer,
and to help them Paul write to them this letter. It could have been a
struggle for the proud Corinthians even to identify their sin before God.
You also flounder because the name you give your sin often expresses
further evasion. "You pray; 'Lord, forgive me for not loving Mrs. X.' But
in your heart you can still see the obnoxious image of Mrs. X, and the
vision doesn't exactly attract your compassion, and the sentimentalised
image of Jesus which floats through your consciousness has no power to
banish your evil thoughts about that woman.
"Then the Lord Jesus at the Father's right hand begins to do his sovereign
work. Suddenly you realise through the Holy Spirit that you have been
trifling. Now you pray differently, with a stricken conscience: 'Holy
Father, I have not loved Mrs. X. But that's only part of my sin. In my
heart I have despised her.' So in your confession to God you fight to name
your sin - and to give your sin its right name. Then you hand it over to
Christ by faith and taste the happiness of sins forgiven (Psa. 32:1) and
find the deliverance from hypocrisy which comes through honest confession
(Psa. 32:2-5) ... Grace is for sinners, and you have felt grace make a
clean sweep of your repentant heart" (C. John Miller, "Repentance and 20th
Century Man," CLC, 1975, p.118).
That is exactly what happened when the letter Paul had written was read out
to the church in Corinth. That letter hurt them for a little while, but
then godly sorrow led them to repentance about how they had been treating
Paul, and that led to their salvation. Because if you cannot love your
brother whom you can see how is it possible for you to love God whom you
cannot see? So this godly sorrow over their behaviour in the congregation
towards a particularly sinful relationship, and their boorish attitude
towards Paul, produced an earnestness, and eagerness to clear themselves,
an indignation, an alarm, a longing, a concern and a readiness to see
justice done.
That was the way love was revived in the congregation. It was through
repentance. It always is through repentance. That is the God-appointed way.
We hate David's wickedness in taking a man's wife and having the man
murdered, but when we see his deep repentance we love him again, because we
recognise sinful David living on in our hearts. We yearn that repentant
David lived there too.
I see in Wales a church landscape of huge buildings and tiny congregations,
and they are kept going these days by a few people who are in earnest about
religion. They want to see their congregations grow, but they have the most
superficial ideas about the faith. Their only contact with size and
enthusiasm has been meetings where all the emphasis is on contemporary
Christian music, and so their diagnosis is this, that the reason for our
religious decline is old hymns, and old buildings. Their answer to the
decline is, "If only we could sing new songs with music groups then we
would attract young people." Of course, the problem is far more profound,
about the churches' relationship with God, and with the Bible, and with one
another. Much repentance needs to be displayed and deep trust in God and
his Word. That is the only way forward. We can sing our way to destruction
via Graham Hendricks' songs just as easily as by carrying on singing from
the old hymnal.
4. LOVE CAN BE STIRRED UP BY WITNESSING A CHANGE IN OTHERS.
Paul tells them, "we were especially delighted to see how happy Titus was,
because his spirit has been refreshed by all of you" (v.13). We all long to
come to church and find our spirits refreshed. It happened to Titus. He was
evidently there, sitting in the congregation, maybe on the edge of his
seat, praying in his heart for the people and their reception of Paul's
letter as one of the elders got up and began reading it to them. Then he
began to witness the great change taking place all around him as the words
began to sink in, the godly sorrow, the tears, the new spirit of
earnestness, the eagerness to clear themselves, the indignation, the alarm,
the longing, the concern, the readiness to see justice done. Then, after
the meeting was closed and in the following days, Christians in Corinth
kept coming to him and pressing him for news of Paul, urging him to tell
Paul how much they longed for him, and of their deep sorrow that there had
been this alienation, and their ardent concern for him. Little wonder after
experiencing that Titus was a new person with a refreshed spirit.
What a picture this is of revived believers with restored souls, some
saying that their joy was greater than they had ever known, with a new love
for other believers. See how Paul describes Titus here - "his affection for
you is all the greater" (v.15). Isn't that what we want for ourselves? That
we should be changed just like that? It came to Timothy as he sat there and
saw the effect the Word of God had on the congregation, the godly sorrow
created by the letter of Paul working repentance in the lives of others.
That has happened many times in the history of the church. A businessman
went to the Methodist church in Bristol in 1739. The meeting in its form
differed little from the services he generally went to, but there the
similarity ended. Charles Wesley was preaching, and this is what the
businessman saw: "Never did I hear such praying. Never did I see or hear
such evident marks of fervency in the service of God. At the close of every
petition, a serious Amen, like a gentle, rushing sound of waters, ran
through the whole audience. Such evident marks of a lively devotion I was
never to witness to before. If there be such a thing as heavenly music upon
earth, I heard it then. I do not remember my heart to have been so elevated
in Divine love and praise, as it was there and then, for many years past,
if ever" (Tyerman's "Life and Times of John Wesley" Vol. 1, pp.153-4). That
man's spirit was refreshed being in that meeting.
5. LOVE CAN BE STIRRED IN OTHERS BY SIMPLY HEARING ABOUT THE MIGHTY WORKS
OF GOD.
Paul himself was not in Corinth when all this was going on. He was 100
miles north of that city, but he heard about everything there through
Titus. He says, "By all this we are encouraged" (v.13), and he goes on to
repeat that word, and then speaks of his own delight in seeing the effect
it had had on Titus. In other words, Paul was not an eye witness but, like
ourselves, heard of it all second hand. Yet that was enough to impact his
own faith: "I am glad I can have complete confidence in you," he says
(v.15). His heart was stirred in love for them by hearing of this mighty
work of God done in their midst.
The eleventh chapter of Hebrews is a record of the great works of God which
men have done. The author gives an overview of the whole sweep of
redemptive history and tells us of all his great heroes and their exploits;
"who through faith conquered kingdoms, administered justice, and gained
what was promised; who shut the mouths of lions; quenched the fury of the
flames, and escaped the edge of the sword; whose weakness was turned to
strength; and who became powerful in battle and routed foreign armies"
(Hebs. 11:33&34). Why does he do this? To encourage us to remember that the
people of God are not an insignificant grain of sand but we are surrounded
by a great cloud of witnesses stretching back through history. So let's run
our race with patience and fix our eyes on Jesus, and keep struggling
against sin. Hearing how men of like passions as ourselves have prevailed
by trusting God encourages us to keep working.
Think of the impact on all England which Richard Baxter's twenty year
ministry in Kidderminster had. Most of the people of the town - which at
that time numbered a couple of thousand - were converted through his
preaching and five extra galleries had to be built into he church to hold
the crowds. This was known by every evangelical Christian in England and it
gave them great encouragement. In Northern Ireland in the 1620s there was a
great work of God under a crazy man called James Glendinning of
Sixmilewater in Antrim who preached just the law and struck men down in
terror, but who did not understand the gospel enough to bring them into
peace. A man called Robert Blair did that, and the face of Ulster changed.
Again in less than ten years from that revival in Kirk o'Shotts in Scotland
a quietly spoken man called John Livingstone preached on the new birth for
an hour and a half and 500 people testified afterwards that under that
sermon they came to know God for themselves. All Scotland were encouraged
by the news. Or again, David Brainerd almost a century later saw some of
the most depraved Indians in New Jersey transformed by God's grace. How it
encouraged him; he wrote, "I was ready to think that I should never again
despair of the conversion of any man or woman living, be they who or what
they would."
Or again a century earlier in Dedham John Rogers was preaching a sermon to
the people on their sin of neglecting the Bible. He impersonated God
speaking to the congregation and said to them, "Well, I have trusted you
for so long with my Bible. It lies in your houses all covered with dust and
cobwebs; you care not to listen to it. Do you use my Bible so? Well, you
shall have my Bible no longer." Then Rogers took up the Bible from the
pulpit and seemed as if he were going away with it and carrying it from
them, but immediately he turned again and impersonated the people before
God, falling down on his knees, and crying and pleading most earnestly,
"Lord, whatever you do, don't take your Bible from us. Kill our children,
burn our houses, destroy our goods, only spare us your Bible." Then Rogers
impersonates God again to the people, "Say you so? Well, I will try you a
while longer, and here is my Bible for you. I will see how you will use it,
whether you will love it more ... observe it more ... practice it more, and
live more according to it."
At this point a wave of godly sorrow fell upon the entire congregation and
the service ended as the people broke their hearts. Thomas Goodwin was
sitting in the congregation and when he had composed himself he got up and
found some energy to walk out to his horse. But when he reached the horse
he broke down again and had to put his arms around the neck of his horse to
support him as he wept for fifteen minutes before mounting the horse and
riding home. Now that is the phenomenon that Titus witnessed when he was in
Corinth and heard Paul's letter read out, and saw the congregation dissolve
into weeping. That is what he told Paul about when he reached him, the news
of which so greatly encouraged Paul.
There is this great problem in the church:
"Lord it is our chief complaint
That our love is cold and faint."
It is a serious problem - failure to keep the new commandment of the Lord
Jesus. And here is this God answering that problem. He takes hold of a
little letter written by Paul, and he uses the voice of some utterly
unknown church official who proceeds to read it to a congregation of
insignificant church members in Corinth, and there is the most startling
reaction. The whole church is plunged into godly grief. There is a new
earnestness, "what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what
alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done"
(v.11).
Should we not yearn that today, somewhere, where no preacher has turned up,
an elder should read to the people an old sermon coming from revival times,
and the Spirit of God fall upon them under that Word and there begins a
great awakening in our day, which no one can attribute at all to any orator
or the power of man, but which has been done by the Sovereign God's grace
so that no flesh should glory in human engineering but in God's mercy. And
should we not cry to God that such signs of his intention to favour us
should be seen again or else our whole civilisation be destroyed and there
be left an increasingly muted testimony to our Saviour Jesus Christ in the
earth.
23rd September 2001 GEOFF THOMAS
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