THE MARKS OF THE MATURE MAN
I Timothy 5:22-25 "Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands, and do not
share in the sins of others. Keep yourself pure. Stop drinking only water,
and use a little wine because of your stomach and your frequent illnesses.
The sins of some men are obvious, reaching the place of judgment ahead of
them; the sins of others trail behind them. In the same way, good deeds are
obvious, and even those that are not cannot be hidden."
The greatest single moment in the life of any human being is the time when
he becomes a Christian. In that moment his whole position is radically and
irreversibly altered. His heart is renewed. His status is changed. He is
declared righteous by Almighty God. He is united to the Lord Jesus Christ.
The domination which sin has had over him is ended. His prospects are
completely changed. He has been made a child of God, his heir and even a
joint heir with the Son of God. His is an incorruptible inheritance. He is
given new resources, attitudes and aspirations. He is even made a new
creation.
Christians properly emphasise the decisiveness and momentousness of that
change, and yet from another point of view it is only the beginning of our
soul's salvation. It is not in itself the completion of the work of
redemption. It is only the initial step. Between the soul at that moment
and its final redemption, there lie all the struggles of the Christian
pilgrimage as the City of Destruction is abandoned and the journey
undertaken to the Celestial City. The follower of Christ must face many
perils, temptations and obligations in learning the ways of discipleship.
Most of all, perhaps, his life becomes a voyage of self-discovery as, by
the word of God and the Holy Spirit, he finds out about himself.
Timothy has had the blessings of a mother and grandmother who taught him
the Bible. He has experienced the incomparable privilege of the apostle
Paul's love, companionship, example and teaching. He writes letters to help
Timothy. But more than that, Timothy has had the apostle Paul with the body
of elders putting their hands upon him, gifting him and setting him apart
for a life of serving the church. Timothy has now become the pastor of the
best taught and maturest congregation in New Testament times. This church
has received, read, virtually memorised and applied to its life - both as a
congregation and as individuals - Paul's epistle to the Ephesians. What a
privileged background Timothy has had, and what honours are his, as a young
man, to be the pastor of such a church.
Yet Paul knows what is in the human heart, more than any other man ever
had. He knew from his own experience that the evil he would not do he
actually did. And the good he admired and would do he refused to do. At
times his own wretched failures overwhelmed him. No other Christian had
suffered such rejection from religious people, and hatred from the world.
The apostle deplored any mystical tendencies that would destroy the
usefulness and happiness of Christians. So he gives Timothy much practical
advice as to how a Christian is to think and behave. In these verses he
gives four pieces of practical sagacity, which, if Timothy heeds them will
save his own life, and that of the congregation, from much pain.
1. Don't Take Major Decisions Suddenly.
"Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands" (v.22). See the context of
these words. Paul has been speaking about accusations being brought against
elders, and that those who sin are to be rebuked publicly. Now he is
suggesting to Timothy that some of this pain might be averted if an
appropriate time span were allowed between men's profession of faith in
Christ and their being set aside as elders. Don't make them officers in the
church in a hurry.
Let us say that one of the first indications that a man is beginning to
fulfil the function of an elder is that as part of his very nature he feels
for, prays for and cares for people. Officers are concerned about the
flock. They pray for people in the congregation and are anxious about their
welfare. It is obvious that they bear members of the congregation, and the
health of the church on their hearts. Both the elder and his wife are
people who care in practical ways about the church. When I talk about
'caring' I don't mean at all that they must be 'touchy-feely' and
demonstrative, and effusive personalities. That is a danger, that people
are bowled over by the emotional extravagances and affections of certain
Christians so that immediately such people are set aside and given office
in the church. "Don't be hasty."
Again let us say that an elder has to be a mature man. But that does not
mean that he must be an old man. Some men become too old to continue in the
work of the leadership of the church. Paul is not talking about
chronological factors. Elders must be mature enough for their particular
work in the church. There is a maturity needed to teach Sunday School, and
a maturity needed to work with the young people, and a maturity to lead the
women's work, but those are not the same qualities as what is needed for
the eldership. There is also a maturity needed to be a preacher and that is
not the same as what is required in being an elder. In other words, the
door to becoming a preacher is not the door marked 'Elder.' A man can open
up Scripture, and preach the gospel and know the great truths of the Bible
at twenty years of age. He can graduate from seminary at 23 and be called
to a congregation where some of the most blessed and fruitful years of
evangelism in his entire life are immediately experienced. He finds himself
looking back with nostalgia to his early years. However, men can rarely
become elders at 23, but many men certainly have become mature enough at
that age to be preachers and missionaries. So these words of our text are
not to be used to clamp down on young men declaring the word of God to any
who will hear them, privately, or on a street corner, or from a pulpit.
Make sure people are mature enough for whatever you are asking them to do
in a church. Go slowly. Be careful. Understand as well as you can the
person before giving him office. If there are doubts then think again.
Whatever problems of personality the man in the pew might have the
possibility of hurting others is ten times increased if he has some office
in the church. Does he have a teachable spirit? Will he respect the church
leadership? Is he going in the same direction that you are?
But let us open up this caution a little wider. Do not be hasty in any
important decision you take. Don't be hasty in handing in your resignation.
Don't be hasty in writing a letter to a church member, or a person you
barely know, or to the local paper. Don't be hasty in deciding that you are
going to marry that redhead. Don't be hasty in phoning someone. Don't be
hasty in saying "I'll never ..." or "She always..." Don't be hasty in going
to see your children's headmaster. Don't be hasty to complain or to
criticise to dismiss someone. Don't be hasty in doing what you have decided
has got to be done. Have some poise.
The Lord is never in a hurry. With him one day is like a thousand years. He
is patient and long suffering. The apostle Peter says that God took his
time in the days of Noah. He gave a world a century to heed his word. The
Lord never gave up on us stupid rebels. He didn't let us finish one another
off with a doomsday bomb - though that is what we deserve. He didn't come
quickly at the end of the first century and turn the world into a perfect
kingdom. He has not been hasty in taking decisive action. So with us too,
let us get on with glorifying and enjoying him in all our duties in church,
family, work and before the watching world. There are always many
fascinating things to do if you are a Christian. Look evil full in the face
and find courage from God to resist it. You can be more than a mere
conqueror. You can enjoy the fruits of triumph for the rest of your life
through Christ.
Don't be hasty in acting on your feelings. There is nothing easier for the
devil to counterfeit than feelings. Don't be hasty in labelling such
impulses 'impressions of the Holy Spirit.' They can be produced by any
number of sources: God, Satan, an angel, a demon, human emotions (such as
excitement or fear), hormonal imbalance, insomnia, medications or an upset
stomach. The Bible does not invest inner impressions with authority to
function as indicators of divine guidance. Impressions are real; believers
experience them. But impressions are not authoritative. Impressions are
impressions, so you should not act hastily in the light of them alone. If
what you experience and desire is true and right then it can bear scrutiny
and the test of time. So examine your impressions in the light of the
Scriptures.
Ask for counsel before you act, but not just from those who will always
agree with what you think. Then carefully evaluate what they say. The best
counsellor may yet point you down the wrong road just as easily as your
feelings. Here are two good questions you should ask people when you are
seeking advice: "Do you know of any scriptural or biblical principles that
apply to the decision I am making? Have you gained practical insight
through your experience in making a similar decision that would be of value
to me?" (cp. Garry Friesen's "Decision Making and the Will of God",
Multnomah Press, 1980, p.270). So Paul's first exhortation is do not take
major decisions in haste.
2. Keep Yourselves Pure.
"Do not share in the sins of others. Keep yourself pure" (v.22). The word
translated 'share' is a familiar Greek word, 'koinonia,' the word that is
usually translated 'fellowship.' You cannot remain in fellowship with
defiant sinners. The apostle is not urging us to separate ourselves from
the sinning people of this world by going off and living in a wilderness
like John the Baptist. Paul makes a clear distinction between the holy
living he insists upon in those who profess to love God, and the sinful
conduct which he recognises as often characterising unbelievers. He has
that familiar basic statement in I Corinthians 5:9-13, "I have written you
in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people - not at all
meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and
swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world.
But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls
himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a
slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat. What
business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to
judge those inside? God will judge those outside." Do not fellowship with
those who profess to be Christians and yet whose lives defy the Christians'
God. Remember the great words with which the book of Psalms begins,
"Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand
in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But his delight is in
the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night" (Ps.1:1&2).
Keep yourself pure in how you live, and what you believe and teach. Avoid
those who would seduce you from the ways of God.
Dr J.Gresham Machen was a great champion of historic Christianity in the
1920's and 1930's. It was directly because of the stand which he took then
that there are today more than half a dozen conservative Presbyterian
seminaries in the USA training between 2,000 and 3,000 men for the
ministry. He and a number of other ministers were deposed from the
Presbyterian Church (USA) in its 1935 General Assembly for starting a
Foreign Mission Board consisting of evangelical missionaries alone. After
the sentence had been passed and the meeting closed some of the liberal
leaders walked up to the Bible-believing ministers who had been put out of
the denomination with an exaggerated demonstration of good sportsmanship.
The modernists smiled at the "ultrafundamentalists" and shook hands. They
told Dr Machen and the others that they had put up a good fight, and that
they respected them for it.
Of course they could afford to be magnanimous. They had secured a vast and
goodly heritage. Having got Princeton Seminary in their pockets, now they
had all the legacies for the Foreign Mission Board of the Presbyterian
Church (USA) which had been given through the sacrifice, sweat and prayers
of a scripturally sound people. That could be used to promote a studiously
vague Christianity. In their eyes they had 'rescued' the church from the
impossible view that Scripture was the infallible word of God. But they
hated to be 'out of fellowship' with anyone, whatever they might believe.
So they showed they had no hard feelings, and across the floor of the
General Assembly they strolled with outstretched hands to say to goodbye
and good luck to those whom they had just excommunicated. If there had to
be any group with whom they would not co-operate it was the
'fundamentalists.'
We too are under a divine obligation not to fellowship in the sins of
others. We cannot co-operate with those who preach another gospel. Do they
believe in a virgin-born Christ? Do they truly declare that only through
faith in Jesus Christ the Son of God men can be saved? Do they teach a
substitutionary atonement, a bodily resurrection, a throne of judgment, a
hell to avoid, a heaven to enter? If not, the precept is clear - "do not
share in the sins of others." You cannot remain in fellowship with both
those who deny the gospel and at the same time with us also who live by the
gospel. You have to choose. And we must take action too, and not associate
ourselves with anyone who is called a brother but who preaches another
gospel.
At Cambridge University in the summer term of 1919 an evangelical student
called Norman Grubb of Trinity College and a friend, met with ten
representatives of the Student Christian Movement to discuss with them what
view of Christianity the SCM was promoting in the British universities.
Norman Grubb asked them this fundamental question, "Does the Student
Christian Movement put the atoning blood of Christ central in its
teaching?" After a little deliberation the answer came, "We acknowledge it,
but it is not central." It was an accurate and definitive reply.
The parting of the ways stemming from that understanding of what is
Christianity resulted in the beginning of the Inter Varsity Fellowship of
evangelical Christian Unions in the universities of the British Isles. The
test for Christian fellowship was not religious experience but the
centrality of Bible truth. The IVF began with fifteen members of the
Christian Union in Cambridge. Oxford quickly followed it, and by 1923 a
Christian Union had begun in Cardiff University. The influence of the Inter
Varsity Fellowship (later the UCCF) in the UK in helping students to
understand what Christianity is has been enormous. But the subsequent story
of the Student Christian Movement is also salutary. Of the 50,000 students
in British universities before 1914 10,000 of them were members of the SCM.
The SCM watchword had been "the evangelisation of the world in this
generation." That watchword was quietly dropped in 1922. By 1957 there were
still 7,000 members of the SCM with half a million students in the British
Isles, but by 1978 it had just 200 members. Starved of the oxygen of
evangelical preaching and piety the SCM had entered into terminal decline.
There was no way that gospel Christians could be part of a religious
organisation where the atoning blood of Christ was not central. "Do not
share in the sins of others."
We are called to keep ourselves pure, and so the nickname which our fathers
were given of 'puritans' may be given to us. I pray it may be so. "Blessed
are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." I sometimes fear that we
are growing bored with evangelical Christianity, and if so, then we are
growing bored with God himself. There is a great work for us to do. This
gospel must be preached in its purity to the men and women of the new
millennium. Much work has been done this century by pastors whose names are
today unknown. Some of them kept themselves free from error in obscure
country villages. There have been hundreds of families who are completely
unknown to us where the Bible has been read and honoured and from whose
homes people have gone out to live as Christians in the world. They prayed,
and we have reaped those things they sought for this land. God has not
ceased to answer prayer. The Lord has blessed those who would not share in
the sins of others. Let us thank him for what he has done, and remember the
word of that Old Testament believer, "If the Lord were pleased to kill us
would he have shown us all these things?"
3. Take a Little Wine.
"Stop drinking only water, and use a little wine because of your stomach,
and your frequent illnesses" (v.23). Maybe this verse embarrasses you.
Maybe you thought that Christianity was only about men's souls. But the
Christian religion is total in scope. If you are interested in proper
physical habits, proper nutrition, and good health, the Bible is your book.
Take a look at the directives that God gave the people of Israel - the
dietary laws, the laws governing sexual conduct, the laws for cleansing,
the laws for dealing with the sick and dead in Leviticus and Deuteronomy.
According to doctors, these laws make good sense today. God gave these laws
because he is interested in our physical health as well as our spiritual
health. The apostle tells the Christians in Corinth, "Honour God with your
body" (I Cor. 6:20).
When you went away to university did your mother call you with inquiries
about your health? Did she tell you what to take and eat and when to go to
bed? Of course she did. Wouldn't Paul who fathered Timothy have the same
concern for him? God had created Timothy's body. It was a marvellous gift,
and so Timothy was not to beat it up, tear it up, misuse it, and wreck it.
Timothy didn't come from a monkey, so he wasn't to act like one. "Use a
little wine because of your stomach, and your frequent illnesses."
Let me approach the verse this way. It is very fascinating to learn that
Timothy was often ill, although he had had hands laid on him by Paul. The
apostle had only recently sent him to Ephesus, and Timothy was soon to see
him, yet he was frequently sick. The apostle had also left a Christian
worker called Trophimus sick in Miletus (2 Timothy 4:20). These were not
examples of apostolic failure, but of God's will not being the healing of
everybody, even during the time of the Lord Jesus and his apostles here on
earth. I am saying as plainly as I can that it was not and is not God's
purpose that all sick people should be restored to perfect health. When the
Lord Christ went to the pool of Bethesda he passed through crowds of sick
folk whom he made no attempt to heal (Jn.5:3). He went directly to one
crippled man who at once was fully restored. Again, the Lord raised from
the dead three people only. When Paul went to Lystra (Acts 14:8-10) and to
Malta (Acts 28:7-10) he expected and he saw the immediate healing of two
men who were scarcely Christians, but with these two men, Timothy and
Trophimus, who were both dear to him, and of great faith, and very
important in the work of the gospel, the apostle had no authority from the
Holy Spirit to heal them.
Think of the constant pain and ill health both Luther and Calvin knew.
Think of how Baxter suffered, and Owen, and Watts, and Whitefield. Sickness
cut short the lives of Brainerd, and McCheyne. They laboured with ill
health all through their ministries. Spurgeon suffered throughout his life.
God did not heal those giants. There seems to have been very few men
greatly used of God, full of the Holy Spirit, who were not troubled by much
pain, often laid aside on a sick bed. One reason for this is that whom the
Lord loves he chastens. Those who bear fruit he prunes that they might
bring forth more fruit.
Why are some healed while others are not? Men and women, there is the
teaching in the Bible of the sovereignty of God. He determines those whom
he will heal, by what means he appoints to their recovery, and those he
chooses not to heal. He says to such, "Come above to the place I have
prepared for you." You remember there was one day last November when two
Christian women from this town both gave birth to daughters, one was alive,
and the other dead. Both were exemplary Christian mothers. One child lived
and the other child died. At such times we gather together all the faith we
have and we say humbly to our faithful God, "Even so Father, for so it
seemed good in thy sight." That is the victory that overcomes the world,
even our trust.
It is just as true that as long as we are on this earth we - like all of
mankind - are subject to the frailties of a sin-cursed body and a
sin-cursed world. Becoming a Christian does not deliver a woman from the
pain of birth-pangs. Like her non-Christian sisters she brings forth
children with suffering. Though she is comforted and fortified in her
suffering by the presence of the Lord, she is not delivered from suffering
itself.
Becoming a Christian does not deliver a man from tilling soil which is
cursed with thorns and thistles, or from earning his bread by the sweat of
his brow. Timothy and Trophimus had no right to claim from God complete
deliverance from the cursed effects of sin any more than a farmer can sit
back and ask God to rid his fields of thistles. The farmer cannot say,
"Supply my needs without my having to sweat." The man who does not work
does not deserve food.
When Timothy and Trophimus became Christians their bodies, which were born
under the curse of sin, did not suddenly become 'bionic.' They did not get
a whole new range of immunities to viruses, cancers, arthritis, infections,
heart disease and the like. They certainly did get a new desire to respect
their bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit. They learned the importance of
pure living, discipline and self-control. But they could not 'claim'
perfect health on the ground that their bodies had been delivered from the
curse of sin. That curse has been passed on to us all from our solidarity
in Adam. Not until we receive our glorified bodies from the last Adam will
all our sicknesses be removed. One day Timothy would die, and Trophimus
would die too, as all of us, and that is irrefutable proof that the body of
the believer has not been delivered from the curse of sin.
"But there is a man in this congregation," you protest, "who sixteen months
ago was given a year to live. Now he is not only alive but every trace of
cancer has been removed." That is true. But what is significant is that we
did not hold nights of prayer for him. In fact I can remember only one
prayer meeting in which one person prayed for him. We did not lay hands on
him or anoint him with oil. Yet God has healed him, by such prayers as were
offered, and through a major operation, and skilful surgeons, and
post-operation chemotherapy. It was God's will that he should live more
than a year. Doctors are not infallible in their predictions. Thus we
believe that God heals today. He has healed me of every illness of which he
has desired to heal me. Then a day will come and he determines I shall not
be healed, and he will give me grace to die. And my family will not sue the
National Health Service because I no longer live. Thus it is with all
Christians. We believe that there are many occasions when we cry to God and
he gives health, and we believe that there are occasions when his answer is
No.
So there in Ephesus Timothy was often ill. Paul did not write and say,
"Wait until I come. I shall heal you in a second." He did not rebuke
Timothy for his lack of faith. He did not say, "Name it and claim it." He
actually told Timothy to stop drinking water only, but to "use a little
wine because of your stomach." Now this word 'wine' is the very same word
as we find in Ephesians 5:18, "Be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess."
It is not grape juice. It is not non-alcoholic. It can make you drunk.
"Take a little of it," the apostle tells Timothy, especially for medicinal
purposes. Timothy was not a Nazirite; he had made no vows to refrain from
wine. A Christian may choose not to drink alcohol. Many do.
There are means God has appointed for our survival. We are, for example, to
eat and drink. If we refuse to do that then God will not miraculously keep
us alive without food. We will die. God made Luke a physician and he was
able to help people. Go to the best doctors you can. In the creation God
has placed means of helping us cope with the sicknesses which all men and
women must experience in this groaning world. Paul is telling Timothy not
to stop taking his medicine. Address the means of strengthening yourself in
every way.
This passage is making no comment on social drinking, but the Bible is
scathing in its denunciation of drunkenness: "Who has woe? Who has sorrow?
Who has strife? Who has complaints? Who has needless bruises? Who has
bloodshot eyes? Those who linger long over wine, who go to sample bowls of
mixed wine. Do not gaze at wine when it is red, when it sparkles in the
cup, when it goes down smoothly! In the end it bites like a snake and
poisons like a viper. Your eyes will see strange sight
s, and your mind imagine confusing things. You will be like one sleeping on
the high seas, lying on the top of the rigging. 'They hit me,' you will
say, 'but I'm not hurt! They beat me, but I don't feel it! When will I wake
up so I can find another drink?'" (Provs. 23:29-35).
A man called Kevin Brain of the Institute of Alcohol Studies has just
published a paper called "Youth, Alcohol and the Emergence of the
Post-modern Alcohol Order." He points out the strategy of the brewers in
creating such drinks as alcopops, ice lagers, white ciders and buzz drinks
and selling them in cafe bars, theme bars and club bars. It is the start of
"recreational drug wars" in which alcohol is marketed as one of a range of
psychoactive drugs. The young people are being herded into "unbounded
hedonistic consumption." You are under attack.
Many have been detroyed. Kevin Brain quotes what some of these young people
say: Gail (aged 14), "It's very important to get drunk otherwise there's no
point in buying it." Gaz (aged 15), "Wouldn't like to be seen with cheap
cider. If you've got Budweiser you are loaded. It's like the girls will
say, I'll go out with him..." Dan (aged 17) said that a good time consisted
of, "getting wrecked, getting some slag, and having a fight without the
police finding out." Joe (aged 13) defined a good time as, "battering heads
and nicking cars ... drink makes you madder." If you live without God you
live without hope, and drink is a sad brief escape from reality.
Let me ask you if you as a Christian have ever been drunk, and when you got
home to bed, did you pray before you fell asleep? Of course not. When you
laid down your muddled head, you were all mixed up, and you couldn't say a
word to God, could you? That seems to me a simple enough reason why
Christians shouldn't get inebriated. I'm afraid to lose contact with the
living God. I dare not become a loose cannon. Christians are supposed to
pray without ceasing. That's why it is so dreadfully dangerous to tamper
with your mind. Of course, sometimes our minds become diseased or something
functional goes wrong with them. That is bad enough. But voluntarily to
induce states in your mind that will break your relationship with God is
the most foolish thing in the world. So do not neglect to heed divinely
appointed remedies for your own weaknesses.
4. Be Wise in Your Judgment of People.
"The sins of some men are obvious, reaching the place of judgment ahead of
them; the sins of others trail behind them. In the same way, good deeds are
obvious, and even those that are not cannot be hidden" (vv. 24&25). Paul is
telling Timothy the most simple point that the character of some men is
immediately apparent. There is open hostility and contempt for all things
to do with religion. One is taking part in student evangelism and visiting
a Christian student when his door bursts open and in walks a grinning
blaspheming friend of his. He wasn't expecting to see a preacher, and
quickly realises why you are there, and then, quite deliberately, he
blasphemes again. He was saying, "I am not afraid of you or your religion."
"The sins of some men are obvious." They say that they have no patience
with 'religion.' They are in the fast lane to judgment, and their sins
arrive there before them. The books are all open, and there is no question
of their guilt. Out of their own mouths they are condemned.
There are others, however, who are very different. Their sins are so far
behind them that they seem to be without any sin. Martin, a minister friend
of mine, had a man ring his door bell. He was a deeply serious man who
referred to the books and preaching of Dr Lloyd-Jones, the work of the
Banner of Truth and what books had helped him. He had just moved to the
town and was looking forward to settling in the congregation listening to
Martin. Anything he could do to help him he would be more than happy to do.
His wife and children would be joining him soon, but he had just moved
before them, and they would be coming with him. Martin was over-joyed. he
thought that this man was an answer to prayer. The man went on to say that
he was having some difficulty finding suitable accommodation, but he had an
option on an apartment which seemed suitable. The only snag was the bank in
the town had not received from the bank in his home town the transfer of
finance, and he had to pay the deposit that day. Could Martin help him with
this loan for a couple of days?
Martin was almost completely taken up with this man, but something did not
ring true. He had the slightest doubt about him. So he said to him, "Can
you give me the name of a previous pastor I could get in touch with to
confirm these things?" The man made a number of excuses, and then his whole
tone began to change as he saw that Martin was resolute about this. He
began to be abusive and scornful. He disdained Martin. He was like all the
other evangelical Christians he had known, distrustful, suspicious,
unwilling to help people in an emergency. Talking the talk, but not walking
the walk. He got up and left Martin highly offended. However, he had
mentioned a certain place he seemed to know well, and after he had gone out
of the door Martin called the pastor there and described the man. He was
well-known in the area. A liar and an embezzler who had spent time in
prison and given his former wife and children a terrible life. He was not
to be trusted with a penny, and certainly not with any work in the church.
Martin was so glad that he had paused and made that simple request before
handing over a couple of hundred pounds. "The sins of some men are obvious
... the sins of others trail behind them."
It is hard to make an assessment of people from a few weeks with them. We
all make mistakes about personalities. Concerning doctrine and practice we
have a Book to refer, but concerning people it is a very great man who has
rarely been led astray in his assessment of men and women. Their sins were
hidden away and they don't turn up until later. Some turn up after the vows
have been made, or after the pregnancy has been discovered, or after the
business deal has been signed, or after the ordination service has been
held. And you say you believe in love at first sight? Or you say that you
pride yourself that you are a good judge of people? Or you plead the tingle
factor as the reason you voted for the man who has turned out to be a
deceiver as the pastor? The sins of some men trail behind them. They had a
front of unimpeachable rectitude but behind it was a life that was evil and
ugly. Aren't you going to make some inquiries about a person's past?
Especially if your life is going to affected by that man? Go to God and
spread it out earnestly before him. Our God doesn't send the bill in at the
end of every month. But send the bill in one day he most certainly will.
There are others, and their good deeds are obvious. There is an blessed
approachability, and appreciation, and humility, and wisdom. Their names
are known in all the churches. Many have cause to rise up and bless them
for the providence that brought them together. But not all Christians are
like that. Their good works are secret, and so they want them to be. They
are shy and reserved people. No one knows the debt a congregation owes to
such men and women. But the Lord knows. With an iceberg only a tenth of it
is above the surface. There are unprepossessing Christians like that, who
have hidden depths of faith and love.
We all say that we are going to have many surprises in the great day of
judgment. Who will be amongst the sheep, and who will be greatly honoured
in heaven, and who will not receive the prominence they expected, and who
will be put to shame. To many the Lord will say, "Depart from me I never
knew you." To many he will say, "Come ye blessed because I was hungry and
ye fed me," and so on. They will be the most surprised of all to hear such
words, and they will say, "But when did we do that?" "You did it to the
least of these my brothers, and so you did it to me." Things that were done
in secret cannot be hidden for ever. God will honour them. He is never any
man's debtor. So do not be embittered if you have spent your life in
obscurity with even your own church not giving you the honour you truly
deserve. The day will reveal it all.
Do not be hasty. Keep yourself pure. Be cautious and discerning. These are
the marks of Christian maturity.
19th March 2000 GEOFF THOMAS
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